Do Black Men Prefer Dominican Women Over American Women?Feb 11th, 2012 | Author: Flyguy | Category: |
My recent admission that I was headed on a trip to the Dominican Republic prompted a familiar refrain among black women. “Why are you going over there?” “I read the article in Essence, so I know what you guys do over there.” “All black men want is sex, and it’s a shame they have to fly to another country to get it.” And on and on it went.
My first reaction was to throw the argument right back in their face by asking, “So why do black women go to Jamaica?” To me, the whole Dominican argument is a double standard if you’re going to run to another country and do the exact same thing. And it’s not like black women can deny it after placing it on the big screen, and turning Stella into some sort of national hero for “getting her groove back.”
But that type of back and forth argument gets old quick. So instead of engaging in it, I wanted to personally speak with the black American men on the island to get a clearer picture as to why they really traveled to the Dominican Republic. What I found was a group of men who found some basic qualities in the island women that they just weren’t getting at home. It was less about sex, and more about the mindset of the women. Below is a sampling of what they had to say. “It’s a respect thing with me. Black women in America are so busy
trying to compete with you that they have forgotten how to be wives and
girlfriends. The women here in D.R. are a lot more mindful of that. They
work hard to make sure that they are good to their men. I just don’t
see that in American black women anymore, and when I do, they throw it
in our face every five minutes.” ~Richard, engineer **There’s so much that can be digested from their thoughts. So let’s not belabor the moment … Do the men have a point? Or are they just blowing smoke to justify their actions? Vote below and then join the discussion. |
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